Surviving the Unbearable

She gave this name to the Lord who spoke to her: “You are the God who sees me,” for she said, “I have now seen the One who sees me.” Genesis 16:13


The Experience Project, one of the largest online communities of the twenty-first century, was once a site where tens of millions shared deeply painful firsthand experiences. As I read through the heartbreaking stories, I reflected on how desperately our hearts long for someone to see—to understand—our pain.

In Genesis, the story of a young handmaid reveals just how life-giving this gift can be. Hagar was a slave girl likely given to Abram by a pharaoh of Egypt (see Genesis 12:16; 16:1). When Abram’s wife Sarai was unable to conceive, she urged Abram to conceive a child with Hagar—a disturbing yet familiar practice of that day. But when Hagar became pregnant, tensions flared, until Hagar fled into the wilderness to escape Sarai’s abuse (16:1–6).

But Hagar’s predicament—pregnant and alone in a harsh, unforgiving desert—didn’t escape divine eyes. After a heavenly messenger encouraged Hagar (vv. 7–12), she declared, “You are the God who sees me” (v. 13). Hagar was praising One who sees more than the bare facts. The same God was revealed in Jesus, who, “when he saw the crowds, he had compassion on them, because they were harassed and helpless” (Matthew 9:36). Hagar encountered a God who understood.

The One who saw and understood Hagar’s pain sees ours as well (Hebrews 4:15–16). Experiencing heaven’s empathy can help the unbearable become a bit more bearable.

By Jeff Olson

Today’s Reflection

How does it reassure you to know God understands the challenges you face? How can you be a channel of His empathy and compassion to others?

6 thoughts on “Surviving the Unbearable

  1. Malakh Adonai (the Angel of the Lord) was the divine being at the well. This was one of the times when Jesus came to earth before His birth. The things He did then were no less amazing than what He has done since.


    • Thank you for adding this info. You are correct Jesus has done many amazing things throughout time and indeed continues to do so even today. His time on earth from birth to Crucifixion is but a blimp time wise and changed the course of history, yet it is all some recognize.


  2. The problem is that most people seem to think that 33 year span was it. They don’t make the connection between Jesus and the Angel of the Lord, in spite of the fact that He alluded to this fact when He called Himself “I AM”.


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